Last year at our state homeschool conference, I was tempted to purchase some math manipulatives for K to have when he was ready. Things are always on sale at conferences and then you don't have to pay for shipping. I went to the table several time wanting to buy them. Well, needless to say, I talked myself out of it because I could buy them at the next conference because we really didn't need them yet.
Now I know what I wanted to purchase them. It wasn't for K's use, but for my nieces that are staying with us. I purchased them (at a higher price) online a couple of days ago.
If I had listened to my inner voice and not my voice of reason, I would have been more prepared of what has happened and would have saved money.
Live and Learn! Next time I won't question and will be more obedient, even when it doesn't make a lot of sense to others or myself.
To think, I wonder why K isn't always obedient. What kind of example am I setting?
Wednesday, December 31, 2008
It's official!
M and I have officially been given "temporary" guardianship for the girls. Right now it's only until June 1, 2009. My sister says if they are having a good time, they will be able to stay longer. My mom and I are anticipating their stay to be longer. They have already picked out bedspreads and a bed that M is going to make for them.
I have ordered their science and math and am going to view a History curriculum that a friend of mine has before I purchase it. It really does seem as though everything is coming together. They've already asked me when they curriculum is going to be here. I think they are excited about it. Now, I need to go to the bookstore and buy some workbooks for K. He's excited about doing school with the girls.
He's enjoying them being here so much, that he doesn't want to take naps or go to sleep because he's afraid they won't be here when he wakes up. He knows they are going to be here for a while, but he doesn't know all the details of why.
When I had prayed about being pregnant by the end of 2008, I had no idea that God had intended us to have 2 teenagers instead.
God had planned something better for us so that only together with us they be made perfect. Hebrews 11:40
I have ordered their science and math and am going to view a History curriculum that a friend of mine has before I purchase it. It really does seem as though everything is coming together. They've already asked me when they curriculum is going to be here. I think they are excited about it. Now, I need to go to the bookstore and buy some workbooks for K. He's excited about doing school with the girls.
He's enjoying them being here so much, that he doesn't want to take naps or go to sleep because he's afraid they won't be here when he wakes up. He knows they are going to be here for a while, but he doesn't know all the details of why.
When I had prayed about being pregnant by the end of 2008, I had no idea that God had intended us to have 2 teenagers instead.
God had planned something better for us so that only together with us they be made perfect. Hebrews 11:40
Monday, December 29, 2008
Reading Aloud
In anticpation of my nieces arrival, I started praying for wisdom in things to do and say with and to them. I know their lifestyle and habits are going to be a lot different here than they were at their home. One of those differences is in television watching. M and I don't have cable and I just found out 2 days ago that we get 2 local channels. Changes are already occurring in their phone time too. I remember when I was their age, I enjoyed talking on the phone (a lot), but I don't ever remember disrespecting someone else's parents so much that I would call their house at midnight.
Anyway, one of the changes that we have implemented is reading aloud. A friend of mine suggested Making Brothers and Sisters Best Friends by Sarah, Stephen, and Grace Mally. The book really is about what the title suggests. It talks about the "normal" hardships we endure as siblings. It also has some self-evaluation quizzes in it that are fun.
We've only been reading it for a few days, but it's truly been a delight. It gives us special time together in which none of us are allowed to talk on the phone. If someone calls, I take a message and call them back later if it's not too late. the girls are enjoying it so much that they are actually asking me if we can read the book. Before we started, I thought we might read a few pages each every day and be done. That wasn't the case. We've only been reading it 4 days and we're already on page 70. Not only are they spending quality time together, but they are learning reading and comprehension skills and books of the Bible. It really has been an exciting week around here and I can't wait to see what God has in store for us in the next few months.
Anyway, one of the changes that we have implemented is reading aloud. A friend of mine suggested Making Brothers and Sisters Best Friends by Sarah, Stephen, and Grace Mally. The book really is about what the title suggests. It talks about the "normal" hardships we endure as siblings. It also has some self-evaluation quizzes in it that are fun.
We've only been reading it for a few days, but it's truly been a delight. It gives us special time together in which none of us are allowed to talk on the phone. If someone calls, I take a message and call them back later if it's not too late. the girls are enjoying it so much that they are actually asking me if we can read the book. Before we started, I thought we might read a few pages each every day and be done. That wasn't the case. We've only been reading it 4 days and we're already on page 70. Not only are they spending quality time together, but they are learning reading and comprehension skills and books of the Bible. It really has been an exciting week around here and I can't wait to see what God has in store for us in the next few months.
Friday, December 26, 2008
Happy Birthday, Jesus!
What a weekend.... Actually, we are still celebrating Christmas activities with our family. For the first time in 9 years, M and I did not leave our house for Christmas. Instead, everyone came here. I, of course, was the first one awake and anxiously waited for K and his cousin to wake me up. I was so tempted to run to his (tent)side to wake him up, but he needs all the sleep he can get so I didn't. I stayed in bed until I heard Baby L crying out for me. It wasn't long after until K and his cousin woke up and ran to the stockings to see what "Santa" had brought them.
After everyone, including my mom and dad, discovered what Santa had brought them, I realized it was my turn. Let me say, Santa was very generous! It was one of the very few times I have ever been caught off guard and surprised!
After I ran to the bedroom to thank the ever so gracious "Santa" while he was sleeping (he'd just got home from work about one hour prior), we hung out and watched the kids play with their stocking stuffers until M woke up from his slumber.
It wasn't long thereafter that M walked into the living room and present opening began with my mom, dad, my 3 nieces, K, baby L, M and myself.
After the gifts were opened, we sang Happy Birthday to Jesus! Since I didn't have any eggs to make a cake with, I put a candle on a peanut butter bar and K got to blow out the candle. This was the first year we had done that and I think everyone enjoyed it and it emphasized what the day was really about. I had hoped to have done it first, before opening the gifts, but it didn't work out that way... maybe next year.
As the kids played with their new gifts, my mom and I began cooking. We finished around 11 a.m., not too long before M's parents, sister, her friend, and her daughter showed up. We all ate, exchanged gifts, and fellowshipped. It was a good time had by all.
This is the first year, we've been able to spend a holiday with both sets of parents. It was really nice. M and my parents are SO different, yet they seem to get a long so well. It was definitely a Christmas worth remembering.
Today, my brother and his kids arrived at our house and we were able to exchange gifts with them. It's been a fun filled evening. My brother's kids brought their new Wii with them. So, between the Wii, the racing games in the home theater, and the movies, we've had a very entertaining night. I am so ready for bed....
I hope you all had a wonderful Christmas and had a lot to be thankful for. Merry Christmas and God Bless!
After everyone, including my mom and dad, discovered what Santa had brought them, I realized it was my turn. Let me say, Santa was very generous! It was one of the very few times I have ever been caught off guard and surprised!
After I ran to the bedroom to thank the ever so gracious "Santa" while he was sleeping (he'd just got home from work about one hour prior), we hung out and watched the kids play with their stocking stuffers until M woke up from his slumber.
It wasn't long thereafter that M walked into the living room and present opening began with my mom, dad, my 3 nieces, K, baby L, M and myself.
After the gifts were opened, we sang Happy Birthday to Jesus! Since I didn't have any eggs to make a cake with, I put a candle on a peanut butter bar and K got to blow out the candle. This was the first year we had done that and I think everyone enjoyed it and it emphasized what the day was really about. I had hoped to have done it first, before opening the gifts, but it didn't work out that way... maybe next year.
As the kids played with their new gifts, my mom and I began cooking. We finished around 11 a.m., not too long before M's parents, sister, her friend, and her daughter showed up. We all ate, exchanged gifts, and fellowshipped. It was a good time had by all.
This is the first year, we've been able to spend a holiday with both sets of parents. It was really nice. M and my parents are SO different, yet they seem to get a long so well. It was definitely a Christmas worth remembering.
Today, my brother and his kids arrived at our house and we were able to exchange gifts with them. It's been a fun filled evening. My brother's kids brought their new Wii with them. So, between the Wii, the racing games in the home theater, and the movies, we've had a very entertaining night. I am so ready for bed....
I hope you all had a wonderful Christmas and had a lot to be thankful for. Merry Christmas and God Bless!
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Monday, December 22, 2008
K painting
We finally painted the 4th bedroom in preparation of the girls coming. K loves to help in anyway that he can. Here he is helping his daddy paint....
Some people might think we're crazy for allowing a 3.5 yo to help us paint a room, but I don't want to be the one that destroys his gift of serving. Besides, it's only paint....
Gingerbread Men
Here are 2 gingerbread K and I made today. In truth, all we did was decorate them. I had bought the kits at Wal-Mart... ;-)
By the time I remember to take a picture, K had already taken a couple of bites of one of the heads. He's still eating it as I type. I think he likes it.
Name Plaque
Here's a name plaque I just finished yesterday. It was the first one I started and the last one I finished, but at least I finished it. Since it wasn't a Christmas gift, I guess I wasn't in too much of a hurry.
Saturday, December 20, 2008
Answered Prayers
For some time, I've been wanting a big family of 4 or 5 kids. I wasn't sure if I would physically have them all or if I would adopt, but I put my faith in God's timing and circumstances and my prayers are being answered in a somewhat unexpected, but prepared for, way.
About 3 (or more) years ago, it was put on my heart for my sister's kids to come live with us. A few months ago, I told my sister that M and I had talked about it and if anything ever happened, that we would help her out in and would love for the girls to come stay with us, whether it be temporary or permanent. Well, I believe that day that has come.....
I won't go into the long story, but I will tell you of God's plans and how everything that happens is purposeful. I've been crying on the inside, and sometimes outside, for my sister and her family for quite some time. I've even gone to members of my church and asked them to pray for her and her family. At last, God knows we are ready to handle whatever he has in store for us and through Him, we will make it.
In talking to my mom and sister in the past couple of days, I think it's official. Our family of 4 will become a family of 6 very soon. When my mom and dad bring my nieces down for Christmas, the two older ones, ages 15 and 12, are going to stay and finish the year out in Louisiana. It is very possible they will stay longer, only God knows what really lies ahead.
*When M and I got married, we talked about having 2 and possibly adopting more.... although we aren't adopting, we are being granted guardianship
*I was hoping to have been pregnant with #3 already, but God had other plans....
*K has been telling me he wants 5 brothers and sisters .... (we're not there yet, but we are a lot closer now)
*I'm part of a homeschool association even though I don't have to register K with the state for another 3 years... I was being prepared for what lied ahead
*When we moved, we made sure we were able to have a 4th bedroom.... we do - we just finished painting it this weekend
*When I would hear of other homeschooler's trials, advice and scripture would sometimes be put on my heart to share with them even though I can honestly say I've never been in that situation... I guess it's something I needed for myself - not to be given out (I didn't know)
*M and I are blessed to be completely debt free allowing me to be able to stay home....which I never imagined I would do
*Although I am going to be an official "homeschooler" to 2 teenage girls, I have a total peace and calmness about it and what is ahead.... God is in control
About 3 (or more) years ago, it was put on my heart for my sister's kids to come live with us. A few months ago, I told my sister that M and I had talked about it and if anything ever happened, that we would help her out in and would love for the girls to come stay with us, whether it be temporary or permanent. Well, I believe that day that has come.....
I won't go into the long story, but I will tell you of God's plans and how everything that happens is purposeful. I've been crying on the inside, and sometimes outside, for my sister and her family for quite some time. I've even gone to members of my church and asked them to pray for her and her family. At last, God knows we are ready to handle whatever he has in store for us and through Him, we will make it.
In talking to my mom and sister in the past couple of days, I think it's official. Our family of 4 will become a family of 6 very soon. When my mom and dad bring my nieces down for Christmas, the two older ones, ages 15 and 12, are going to stay and finish the year out in Louisiana. It is very possible they will stay longer, only God knows what really lies ahead.
*When M and I got married, we talked about having 2 and possibly adopting more.... although we aren't adopting, we are being granted guardianship
*I was hoping to have been pregnant with #3 already, but God had other plans....
*K has been telling me he wants 5 brothers and sisters .... (we're not there yet, but we are a lot closer now)
*I'm part of a homeschool association even though I don't have to register K with the state for another 3 years... I was being prepared for what lied ahead
*When we moved, we made sure we were able to have a 4th bedroom.... we do - we just finished painting it this weekend
*When I would hear of other homeschooler's trials, advice and scripture would sometimes be put on my heart to share with them even though I can honestly say I've never been in that situation... I guess it's something I needed for myself - not to be given out (I didn't know)
*M and I are blessed to be completely debt free allowing me to be able to stay home....which I never imagined I would do
*Although I am going to be an official "homeschooler" to 2 teenage girls, I have a total peace and calmness about it and what is ahead.... God is in control
Sunday, when I walked into church, I told one of my prayer warriors about M and I getting guardianship of 2 of the girls and when she hugged me, tears of joy filled my eyes. I am so excited about what is ahead for these girls and for myself. I know I can help them learn a lot, but I'm really excited about the things I'm about to learn....
Christmas cookies
Last night we attended a Christmas party in which we were asked to bring some kind of food. Here are some cookie cakes that I made. They went over pretty well. They tasted pretty good too. The green trees were dipped in chocolate and covered in green and colored (for the lights) sprinkles.
The white treess were dipped in white chocolate and covered in coconut. I covered one tree in white sprinkles, but it wasn't as festive, so I covered the rest in cocunut.
Thursday, December 18, 2008
Another Christmas Gift....
K kept telling me I painted the L for baby L, but I actually painted it for my niece, Lily. I wasn't sure if I was going to be able to paint a lily or not, but I don't think it turned out too bad. I hope she likes it... I think I like making gifts more that I like buying them. After working in retail for 10 years, I'd just rather not spend a lot of time in stores trying to figure out what to buy people.
Merry Christmas!!!
December 18
Day 18 - JonahJonah 1:1-4:11
This is one of K's favorite story from the Bible. We read it almost every day for a month or two this summer.
Only 1 week left until Christmas!!!!
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
Monday, December 15, 2008
Sunday, December 14, 2008
I Love it When....
In truth, I'm very grateful for the things I do have, not what I don't have, but I couldn't help but share these few sarcasms.... I'm sure there are plenty more, but let's start with these
I love it when....
*someone asks me to stop doing something, yet they continue to do it
*someone asks me to help them do something, yet they don't help themselves
*I develop a new allergy and can't figure out what it is for
*I finally change a light bulb at one end of the hall and the one at the other end goes out the next day
*I'm driving and someone pulls out in front of me and then turns at the next road
*I have the chance to go to bed early, but I can't because I'm not tired
*I have the chance to sleep in only to be awaken by an early morning phone call - thanks bro!
*someone wants me to look at something after I walk out of the room
*someone complains about people complaining
*I look everywhere for my cell phone, only to realize I am talking on it - LOL
*a scripture pops in my head and when I read it, it's so not what I wanted to hear.... (but what I needed to be reminded of)
*I have good intentions, but offend someone
*someone tells me I'm not right when they didn't even let me finish what I was saying
*I go back to the cashier at the restaurant to get my cup for my drink, only to realize the cup is in my hand
*my I tell someone I don't need to do something and then my husband asks me to
*I call someone and forget what I called them for as soon as they answer
*someone asks how your day is going but doesn't really care
*I leave my house to go to the Dr's office only to realize I forgot to put my shoes on - (still laughing about that)
I love it when....
*someone asks me to stop doing something, yet they continue to do it
*someone asks me to help them do something, yet they don't help themselves
*I develop a new allergy and can't figure out what it is for
*I finally change a light bulb at one end of the hall and the one at the other end goes out the next day
*I'm driving and someone pulls out in front of me and then turns at the next road
*I have the chance to go to bed early, but I can't because I'm not tired
*I have the chance to sleep in only to be awaken by an early morning phone call - thanks bro!
*someone wants me to look at something after I walk out of the room
*someone complains about people complaining
*I look everywhere for my cell phone, only to realize I am talking on it - LOL
*a scripture pops in my head and when I read it, it's so not what I wanted to hear.... (but what I needed to be reminded of)
*I have good intentions, but offend someone
*someone tells me I'm not right when they didn't even let me finish what I was saying
*I go back to the cashier at the restaurant to get my cup for my drink, only to realize the cup is in my hand
*my I tell someone I don't need to do something and then my husband asks me to
*I call someone and forget what I called them for as soon as they answer
*someone asks how your day is going but doesn't really care
*I leave my house to go to the Dr's office only to realize I forgot to put my shoes on - (still laughing about that)
Christmas presents
Last year, K and I made some picture frames for some "grandparents" and a favorite babysitter of his. This year, I decided to stick with the tradition of doing handmade gifts for a few people. Hopefully, I will make the time to do more handmade gifts next year.
Although I can't post all of them (because I know who is watching), here are a few that I have completed. The girl I made this for likes racing. It's a name plaque to hang on the wall.
Here's one I made for the brother who is into trains. I still need to paint the smoke stack and the train tracks. The timing of this is going to be perfect. I think he's going to have a train birthday party the week after Christmas. I can't wait to give it to him.
Here's the one I made for the youngest sister that enjoys crafts. I think I finished this one the quickest. I started and finished it in one day.
Here's one I made for the brother who is into trains. I still need to paint the smoke stack and the train tracks. The timing of this is going to be perfect. I think he's going to have a train birthday party the week after Christmas. I can't wait to give it to him.
Here's the one I made for the youngest sister that enjoys crafts. I think I finished this one the quickest. I started and finished it in one day.
I made an M & M themed one for the oldest sister, but forgot to take a picture before I wrapped it. Hopefully, I will remember to take a picture of it after she unwraps it.
If you know who these gifts are going to, please don't tell them. I'm not sure when they're going to get them.... :-)
Saturday, December 13, 2008
M's Christmas present
M's Christmas present finally arrived!!! We drove about an hour to the closest "terminal" to pick it up. It was an interesting day. My husband can be a very focused man when he has his heart and mind set on something.
I like it, but I guess I just need to get used to it, because after I drove it around the block for my test drive, I ended up taking our Geo Prizm to town that evening.
Thursday, December 11, 2008
It snowed!!!!
When K brought the phone to me at 6:00 this morning, the first thing I heard was not hello or good morning, but, "I'm not crazy! It's snowing!There's about a 2 inch accumulation on the ground." It was my best friend. I didn't say bye, but, "OK!" as I hung up the phone. I hit Mike to wake him up and threw back the covers like a kid on Christmas morning.
K and I ran to the door to look outside. I didn't tell him what we were doing or what we were looking for, but as soon as I opened the door, he knew exactly what he was looking at..... It had snowed in Louisiana. I shut the door and we quickly changed out of our pjs and into warmer clothes. K kept saying, "I'm going to drive in it!" Typical boy. Sure enough that's what he did. It's a good thing, M had put a little traction on the back tires...
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Old Friends and Good Memories
A friend of mine from my home town was diagnosed with testicular cancer in March. A few months later they found tumors on his brain. In Sept., the CT scan showed that the tumors were gone. He was expecting his last round of chemo treatment to be this month. On Sun., I got a text from his sister letting me know he had a stroke and had lost feeling in his left leg. Apparently, not only did the tumor in his head come back, but there were more. He had a stroke because the tumors had caused some blood vessels in his brain to bust. He's going to be in the hospital for therapy and radiation for 2 weeks.
I didn't tell anyone I was going, except for my husband and mother-in-law that drove over to watch the kids for me. Needless to say, he was surprised.
What a blessing! I'm so glad I drove the 5 hours one way. I was only able to stay for a few hours before I headed home, but we were able to catch up, make more memories, and be reminded of some old ones that I had forgotten about.
As I drove to see my friend, the encouraging verse of the day was:
"I pray that God, the source of hope, will fill you completely with joy and peace because you trust him. Then you will overflow with confident hope through the power of the Holy Spirit." Romans 15:13
He's in good spirits and I'm looking forward to seeing him walk down the aisle on his wedding day in Feb.
I didn't tell anyone I was going, except for my husband and mother-in-law that drove over to watch the kids for me. Needless to say, he was surprised.
What a blessing! I'm so glad I drove the 5 hours one way. I was only able to stay for a few hours before I headed home, but we were able to catch up, make more memories, and be reminded of some old ones that I had forgotten about.
As I drove to see my friend, the encouraging verse of the day was:
"I pray that God, the source of hope, will fill you completely with joy and peace because you trust him. Then you will overflow with confident hope through the power of the Holy Spirit." Romans 15:13
He's in good spirits and I'm looking forward to seeing him walk down the aisle on his wedding day in Feb.
Tues Appt
So, I finally got through to my Dr.'s office on Monday to find out why I was needing to be seen on Tues.
*Did I mention that I saw him at church on Sunday and asked him if I should be concerned? As he continued to walk past me, he turned around to look at me and said no. That gave me a little relief but peeked my curiosity a little more as to why I would need an appt. if there wasn't anything wrong.
Come to find out, I just need to keep my business to myself. When my family Dr. found out that I had gone to see another Dr., he realized I hadn't been in to see him in a while and he just wanted to follow up. There was no reason for concern, but he just wanted to see what was going on. I politely explained to the lady on the phone (which also goes to our church) that I don't have the time to spend over an hour in the waiting room with 2 small kids just for the Dr. to ask me what's been going on when the CT scan shows there nothing to be concerned about. So, I cancelled my appt. and went out of town to see a friend in the hospital.
*Did I mention that I saw him at church on Sunday and asked him if I should be concerned? As he continued to walk past me, he turned around to look at me and said no. That gave me a little relief but peeked my curiosity a little more as to why I would need an appt. if there wasn't anything wrong.
Come to find out, I just need to keep my business to myself. When my family Dr. found out that I had gone to see another Dr., he realized I hadn't been in to see him in a while and he just wanted to follow up. There was no reason for concern, but he just wanted to see what was going on. I politely explained to the lady on the phone (which also goes to our church) that I don't have the time to spend over an hour in the waiting room with 2 small kids just for the Dr. to ask me what's been going on when the CT scan shows there nothing to be concerned about. So, I cancelled my appt. and went out of town to see a friend in the hospital.
Monday, December 8, 2008
Bath Time
Can you tell baby L likes to take a bath... I had to take a short video of what looks like her trying to climb in the tub....
Sunday, December 7, 2008
Christmas pictures
Here is our Christmas picture for 2008. 
K is 3.5 and baby L is 8 months.
I think she was trying to crawl away when Big Brother put his arm around her to hold her back. She doesn't like to sit still and was ready to go. I thought K was a busy baby, but he didn't have anything on her...
Merry Christmas and God Bless!
K is 3.5 and baby L is 8 months.
I think she was trying to crawl away when Big Brother put his arm around her to hold her back. She doesn't like to sit still and was ready to go. I thought K was a busy baby, but he didn't have anything on her...
Merry Christmas and God Bless!
December 5
Day 5 - Promise to AbrahamGenesis 12:1-7; 15:1-6
(Dark sky with stars)
"Look up at the heavens and count the stars - if indeed you can count them." Then he said to him, "So shall your offspring be." Genesis 15:5
Saturday, December 6, 2008
December 6
Day 6 - Sodom & GomorrahGenesis 18 & 19
To keep K's attention, I didn't read the entire chapters, but (some of) the parts that talked about Sodom & Gomorrah.
Thursday, December 4, 2008
Wait & See
When I was 8 months pregnant, I felt an odd discomfort right below my left rib cage. I didn't think anything of it thinking it was from the pregnancy. Well, baby L is now 8 months old I have had the same discomfort on several occasions. The most recent was when I was working at the gym two weeks ago.
I talked to a friend of mine that is a nurse and she suggested that it could be a hernia. Once again, I put it off. Finally, last week, I decided to go to the Dr. to see what they thought. I chose not to go to my family Dr. because the wait is always too long, but to go to a local walk-in instead. M and I have used the Urgent Care walk-in Dr. before and we both like him. He seems to really care about his patients, listens to them, and actually knows what he's talking about. Anyway, he said the symptoms I have sounded like a hernia, but since I wasn't able to make it happen again nor could he feel or hear anything abnormal, he ordered a CT scan. I did the scan on Wednesday. The CT scan was easy, drinking the 2 glasses of kool-aid was awful!
That night, I saw my family Dr. at church and asked him who he would recommend for a surgeon. I mentioned that I might have a hernia and surgery might need to be done. I mentioned we were waiting for the CT scan to come back to find out for sure.
Today, I received a call from my family Dr.'s nurse asking for me to make an appointment for a follow-up. I mentioned to her that we were waiting on the CT scan to find out if I actually had a hernia or not. She told me they already had the CT scan and they wanted to see me A.S.A.P. He wasn't able to see me on Friday and I wasn't able to go on Monday, so I am going in on Tuesday. She said I don't have a hernia, but nonchalantly said that I have a cyst on my left ovary but that's no big deal. She said women get them all the time and they come and go. When I asked her why the Dr. wanted to do a follow up, she couldn't really give me an answer. She did tell me that if I get sick or throw up between now and Tues, to call them and let them know as soon as possible.
You know, I'm not worried because I know God is in control, but seriously why would a Dr. that I didn't even go to for initial evaluation want to do a follow up if nothing is wrong? I tried calling him at home a couple of times, but he didn't answer.
I guess we shall see on Tuesday.
I talked to a friend of mine that is a nurse and she suggested that it could be a hernia. Once again, I put it off. Finally, last week, I decided to go to the Dr. to see what they thought. I chose not to go to my family Dr. because the wait is always too long, but to go to a local walk-in instead. M and I have used the Urgent Care walk-in Dr. before and we both like him. He seems to really care about his patients, listens to them, and actually knows what he's talking about. Anyway, he said the symptoms I have sounded like a hernia, but since I wasn't able to make it happen again nor could he feel or hear anything abnormal, he ordered a CT scan. I did the scan on Wednesday. The CT scan was easy, drinking the 2 glasses of kool-aid was awful!
That night, I saw my family Dr. at church and asked him who he would recommend for a surgeon. I mentioned that I might have a hernia and surgery might need to be done. I mentioned we were waiting for the CT scan to come back to find out for sure.
Today, I received a call from my family Dr.'s nurse asking for me to make an appointment for a follow-up. I mentioned to her that we were waiting on the CT scan to find out if I actually had a hernia or not. She told me they already had the CT scan and they wanted to see me A.S.A.P. He wasn't able to see me on Friday and I wasn't able to go on Monday, so I am going in on Tuesday. She said I don't have a hernia, but nonchalantly said that I have a cyst on my left ovary but that's no big deal. She said women get them all the time and they come and go. When I asked her why the Dr. wanted to do a follow up, she couldn't really give me an answer. She did tell me that if I get sick or throw up between now and Tues, to call them and let them know as soon as possible.
You know, I'm not worried because I know God is in control, but seriously why would a Dr. that I didn't even go to for initial evaluation want to do a follow up if nothing is wrong? I tried calling him at home a couple of times, but he didn't answer.
I guess we shall see on Tuesday.
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
December 3
Day 3 - The flood Genesis 6:11-22; 7:17-8:3; 9:8-17
It's only day 3 and K is really starting to enjoy the countdown and looks forward to the new ornament and story every day.
He had punched out day 3 before I was even out of bed. :-)
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
Monday, December 1, 2008
Tree Farm
We went to a Tree Farm with some friends on Saturday. It was the first time we had ever been to it and K had a blast. Aside from the amazingly big and beautiful selection of trees (which I did not get a picture of), there was so much to do.
K was able to play on a haystack (he's the one wearing the Santa hat), watch a donkey churn syrup, and watch a Christian puppet 
show reminding everyone to keep Christ in Christmas.
show reminding everyone to keep Christ in Christmas. We were there for 2 hours and he didn't want to go home.
Of course, there was good food too!
C, S, and K had nachos, hot chocolate, and Sprite, while I ventured for good B-B-Q.
C, S, and K had nachos, hot chocolate, and Sprite, while I ventured for good B-B-Q.Baby L had a pretty good time too! 
I think it's fair to say, this will become a family tradition.
I think it's fair to say, this will become a family tradition.Countdown to Christmas
K and I made ornaments for a Jesse Tree last year as a way to keep Christ in Christmas and learn the real meaning of the Christmas.
Since we made decorations for our Jesse Tree last year, I wasn't sure how I would be able to incorporate a hands on learning experience this year and still use the ornaments we
had from last year. So, here's what I did. K and I made an Advent calendar from cardboard, styrofoam cups, and card stock. Each day, he gets to punch the day out to find the ornament he made from last year. Not only do we get to reuse the ornaments, retell the Bible verses, but he gets to tear something up while counting down to Jesus' birthday. It's perfect!
Since I didn't think to take a picture of all the ornaments before I hot glued them into the cups, I'll post a picture of each ornament they day we hang them . Here's the one for today:
Since we made decorations for our Jesse Tree last year, I wasn't sure how I would be able to incorporate a hands on learning experience this year and still use the ornaments we
had from last year. So, here's what I did. K and I made an Advent calendar from cardboard, styrofoam cups, and card stock. Each day, he gets to punch the day out to find the ornament he made from last year. Not only do we get to reuse the ornaments, retell the Bible verses, but he gets to tear something up while counting down to Jesus' birthday. It's perfect! Since I didn't think to take a picture of all the ornaments before I hot glued them into the cups, I'll post a picture of each ornament they day we hang them . Here's the one for today:
DAY 1 - Creation - Verse(s): Genesis 1
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
So Much to Be Thankful For
Despite the fact my daughter has had diarrhea for 3 days, she is sleeping through the entire night and can officially crawl.
Despite the fact that I was awake and sitting near my toilet at 3 and 5 am to relinquich everything I had eaten just hours before, I have food in my fridge that I can eat when I am able to keep it down again.
Despite the fact that I was at the Dr.'s office this morning to have an 8 month discomfort diagnosed, I have the ability and option to go to the Doctor.
Despite the fact that my son was vomiting throughout the day, we were able to watch a movie together in the comfort and warmth of our home.
Despite the fact that my husband got sick this evening, and aside from visiting the toilet a few times, has been in bed since about 6:30 pm, we have a bed to lay our heads on and a bathroom of our own.
Despite the fact we won't know if I am taking the kids to my in-laws for Thanksgiving if M goes into work or staying home so M can recover from his illness, we still have a choice in which both involves family and food.
No matter what seems to be going wrong, there is always something to be thankful for.
Happy Thanksgiving and God Bless!
Despite the fact that I was awake and sitting near my toilet at 3 and 5 am to relinquich everything I had eaten just hours before, I have food in my fridge that I can eat when I am able to keep it down again.
Despite the fact that I was at the Dr.'s office this morning to have an 8 month discomfort diagnosed, I have the ability and option to go to the Doctor.
Despite the fact that my son was vomiting throughout the day, we were able to watch a movie together in the comfort and warmth of our home.
Despite the fact that my husband got sick this evening, and aside from visiting the toilet a few times, has been in bed since about 6:30 pm, we have a bed to lay our heads on and a bathroom of our own.
Despite the fact we won't know if I am taking the kids to my in-laws for Thanksgiving if M goes into work or staying home so M can recover from his illness, we still have a choice in which both involves family and food.
No matter what seems to be going wrong, there is always something to be thankful for.
Happy Thanksgiving and God Bless!
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Going on a Bear Hunt
K and I read Going on a Bear Hunt by Michael Rosen and Helen Oxenbury last night. It's one of our favorite b0oks as we play out the parts. We've read it so much that he has it memorized.Here's a picture of our own bear with two big furry ears, two big goggly eyes, and one wet shiny nose.
Monday, November 24, 2008
Raising Blessings
All too often I hear people say, "I don't know if I want to bring a child into this world." I understand there are a lot of negative influences in the world, it's everywhere. As a Christian, I shouldn't be afraid to bring a child into a world of corruption. I should be joyful of the godly things and ways they can bring into and give to a "corrupted" world.
Walls Closing In
We just had some friends over and they invited us to lunch. Unfortunately, we couldn't go eat with them because K was overdue for a nap, which he didn't want to take. Upon their departure he started throwing a fit. He usually only throws a fit when he's hungry or tired. In this case, he was probably both. Either way, being hungry or tired does not excuse a bad attitude or disrespect. So, he was punished and sent to his room.
"Folly is bound up in the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline will drive it far from him." (Proverbs 22:15)
I'm not afraid to spank my children, although I really don't like to, but if I'm not careful it can turn into a power battle. He'll get spankings and in turn will get louder and more disrespectful and the cycle will continue for a while if I let it. I've found the best way for him to calm down is to explain to him why he's in trouble, have him repeat it back to me, and then just leave the room. He'll fuss and scream for a while, but he'll fall asleep and I don't harbor anger.
Why can't he just listen to me and calm down immediately? Why does he have to fight it so hard to only realize it's really what he actually wants and needs? He knows he's tired. He knows I love him. Wouldn't it just be easier to say, "yes, mam, I'll take a nap" and just go to his room? There wouldn't be any punishment involved and no feelings would be hurt.
So, as I listen to my son scream in anger in his room, I can't help but imagine myself in an enclosed room with the bare walls closing in around me and screaming at the top of my lungs. No one can hear me and there isn't a door for anyone to rescue me. I'm at the end of knowing what to do so I surrender to my emotions and feelings and cave to my knees to pray. It is only in the comfort of prayer that I begin to feel the weight lifting off my shoulders. I start to feel my heart lightening again and the room is starting to regain it's size. I feel peace again.
Why is it I sometimes wait until I can't find any other answer to any of my problems that I surrender all I have? Why do I wait until I feel hopeless in my problems before I take them to God?
"Know also that wisdom is sweet to your soul; if you find it, there is future hope for you, and your hope will not be cut off." (Proverbs 24:14)
"The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom; all who follow his precepts have good understanding. To him brings eternal praise." (Psalm 111:10)
"Folly is bound up in the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline will drive it far from him." (Proverbs 22:15)
I'm not afraid to spank my children, although I really don't like to, but if I'm not careful it can turn into a power battle. He'll get spankings and in turn will get louder and more disrespectful and the cycle will continue for a while if I let it. I've found the best way for him to calm down is to explain to him why he's in trouble, have him repeat it back to me, and then just leave the room. He'll fuss and scream for a while, but he'll fall asleep and I don't harbor anger.
Why can't he just listen to me and calm down immediately? Why does he have to fight it so hard to only realize it's really what he actually wants and needs? He knows he's tired. He knows I love him. Wouldn't it just be easier to say, "yes, mam, I'll take a nap" and just go to his room? There wouldn't be any punishment involved and no feelings would be hurt.
So, as I listen to my son scream in anger in his room, I can't help but imagine myself in an enclosed room with the bare walls closing in around me and screaming at the top of my lungs. No one can hear me and there isn't a door for anyone to rescue me. I'm at the end of knowing what to do so I surrender to my emotions and feelings and cave to my knees to pray. It is only in the comfort of prayer that I begin to feel the weight lifting off my shoulders. I start to feel my heart lightening again and the room is starting to regain it's size. I feel peace again.
Why is it I sometimes wait until I can't find any other answer to any of my problems that I surrender all I have? Why do I wait until I feel hopeless in my problems before I take them to God?
"Know also that wisdom is sweet to your soul; if you find it, there is future hope for you, and your hope will not be cut off." (Proverbs 24:14)
"The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom; all who follow his precepts have good understanding. To him brings eternal praise." (Psalm 111:10)
Sunday, November 23, 2008
An answered prayer
As I was folding laundry in the bedroom, I heard my cell phone ringing. By the time I had found it, the caller had hung up. I noticed it was my sister, which NEVER calls. I quickly called her back to find out it was her middle child, my niece C, that had actually called. She had called to thank me for praying for her. It brought tears to my eyes just thinking about it and wondering if I had actually told them I, and many others, had been praying for all of them, not just C.
C had moved in with her dad and step-mom a while back. I don't really know all the details of what happened, but she's back with my sister now. My sister and her family have had a lot of drama in the past year and I am continuing to pray for them as they adjust to everyone being home again.
C had moved in with her dad and step-mom a while back. I don't really know all the details of what happened, but she's back with my sister now. My sister and her family have had a lot of drama in the past year and I am continuing to pray for them as they adjust to everyone being home again.
Saturday, November 22, 2008
M's mini-vacation
Well, M went to Washington to check out the car he agreed to purchase. Unfortunately for him his gut instinct was right. The car he agreed to buy was not worthy of the money he was about to spend. He had been completely misled and misinformed. He was really upset at first. Then, I reminded him that he's better off having spent the money on the trip than to have got the car in the condition it was in and be upset b/c it wasn't anything like he had been told.
At least this way he got another stamp on his passport when he drove up to Canada to visit. I'm sure he'll start looking for another one when he gets home. This time I won't say or post anything until we have it in our possession.
At least this way he got another stamp on his passport when he drove up to Canada to visit. I'm sure he'll start looking for another one when he gets home. This time I won't say or post anything until we have it in our possession.
What a day!!!
I'm ready for a nap too! It's been a very full, but fun day. Being that I was 2000 miles over needing an oil change, we did that first. While the oil was being changed I watched K play with the train inside. We weren't there very long when a gentleman walked up to us and asked K if he wanted to see a bird that he had in his truck. K didn't know what to say being that it was a stranger and all. Lucky for me he didn't say anything until I said it would be OK. I picked up baby L and we followed the guy out to his truck. For the next 20 minutes or so we watched him handle a beautiful blue and yellow parrot. K didn't want to pet him on the head in fear of being bitten. So, he settled for touching his tail feather. As we parted ways, the guy gave K a tail feather that is almost as long as he is tall. (I'll post pics when M gets back with my camera). We weren't back in the lube shop very long when the car was ready. That was one of the quickest oil changes I've had done.
Next, we stopped at a friend's house to put together shoe boxes for Operation Christmas Child. We were able to get 3 of them together from the extra toys we had from the shoe boxes we assembled at MOPS yesterday. Unfortunately, I had left my checkbook and money at home so I wasn't able to drop the shoe boxes off today.
Then, it was off to the first b-day party. It was fun. The cake was cute and the kids got to decorate tiaras and top hats. It was a really cute idea. We weren't able to stay for the cake or gifts because we had another b-day party to go to.
Off to the second b-day party. There the kids played capture the flag while the parents got to visit and relax a little. After about 30 minutes, the kids came in and made Christmas ornaments out of modeling clay. Another cute idea. We were able to stay for the opening of gifts and cake at this one. As the kids went back outside baby L started getting tired so we packed up and headed for home.
About 3 minutes from the house, K fell asleep and both kids are taking a nap now. I think I'll go do the same.
Next, we stopped at a friend's house to put together shoe boxes for Operation Christmas Child. We were able to get 3 of them together from the extra toys we had from the shoe boxes we assembled at MOPS yesterday. Unfortunately, I had left my checkbook and money at home so I wasn't able to drop the shoe boxes off today.
Then, it was off to the first b-day party. It was fun. The cake was cute and the kids got to decorate tiaras and top hats. It was a really cute idea. We weren't able to stay for the cake or gifts because we had another b-day party to go to.
Off to the second b-day party. There the kids played capture the flag while the parents got to visit and relax a little. After about 30 minutes, the kids came in and made Christmas ornaments out of modeling clay. Another cute idea. We were able to stay for the opening of gifts and cake at this one. As the kids went back outside baby L started getting tired so we packed up and headed for home.
About 3 minutes from the house, K fell asleep and both kids are taking a nap now. I think I'll go do the same.
Never too Young
In a society where things are freely given (and taken) it's become harder and harder to teach my kids how to give from the heart when in public. It seems as though people are always willing to do things for kids, expecting that they can't or are not capable of doing things themselves.
They're smarter than we think. I just read a blog about teaching your kids responsibilities when they're old enough. Every child is different, therefore "old enough" should be determined by the child, not by a standard age. In my house, when K learned to get down from the table by himself, he was taught to put his own dishes away, whether it's in the empty dishwasher or in the sink.
As soon as he was able to make a mess with his toys, he was taught to clean them up. This even applies at church. I remember his teacher telling me once that they would clean it and not to worry about it. I just smiled and asked K to clean up his mess and let her know what our expectations of him were and are. By K helping clean up the mess he helped make, other kids started doing the same and the teacher was able to leave earlier because she didn't have to clean it up by herself.
He feeds the dog. He turns on the DVD player and TV by himself when he wants to watch a movie or watch Signing Times. He buckles himself up in the car. He started helping fold laundry
when he was only 2. He enjoys sweeping the floors and now he likes to mop my floors. When the UPS man delivers a package to the door, he brings it inside for me (if it's not too heavy). He's even responsible for taking his own clothes to the laundry basket when he undresses or changes clothes. He picks out the book he wants me to read every night. He brushes his own teeth, but I go behind him and sparkle them up a bit. Oh, he even answers the phone. That works great, because if it's a telemarketer they hang up thinking they have a wrong #. LOL
I don't say this to boast, but to let you know they will live up to the expectations we have for them. K has been labeled as a "good helper" and good big brother, therefore he enjoys helping and truly is a wonderful big brother.
Now when we first started teaching my son these responsibilities, it took a little longer (by my clock) to get done than I would have liked, but they got done. Now, he's mastered a lot of them and completed them before I realize he even started. He takes pride in being a "helper". He'll even ask me if he can be my "Good Samaritan".
I don't want my children to be ones that expect to be given to, but freely gives to others.
I realize I was put here to serve the Lord. In serving the Lord, I know I am to serve others before self, but if I do everything for my children, than who am I teaching them to serve? In teaching my children to be self-sufficient, it's teaching them to serve others by not having to be served in ALL they do.
They're smarter than we think. I just read a blog about teaching your kids responsibilities when they're old enough. Every child is different, therefore "old enough" should be determined by the child, not by a standard age. In my house, when K learned to get down from the table by himself, he was taught to put his own dishes away, whether it's in the empty dishwasher or in the sink.
As soon as he was able to make a mess with his toys, he was taught to clean them up. This even applies at church. I remember his teacher telling me once that they would clean it and not to worry about it. I just smiled and asked K to clean up his mess and let her know what our expectations of him were and are. By K helping clean up the mess he helped make, other kids started doing the same and the teacher was able to leave earlier because she didn't have to clean it up by herself.
He feeds the dog. He turns on the DVD player and TV by himself when he wants to watch a movie or watch Signing Times. He buckles himself up in the car. He started helping fold laundry
when he was only 2. He enjoys sweeping the floors and now he likes to mop my floors. When the UPS man delivers a package to the door, he brings it inside for me (if it's not too heavy). He's even responsible for taking his own clothes to the laundry basket when he undresses or changes clothes. He picks out the book he wants me to read every night. He brushes his own teeth, but I go behind him and sparkle them up a bit. Oh, he even answers the phone. That works great, because if it's a telemarketer they hang up thinking they have a wrong #. LOLI don't say this to boast, but to let you know they will live up to the expectations we have for them. K has been labeled as a "good helper" and good big brother, therefore he enjoys helping and truly is a wonderful big brother.
Now when we first started teaching my son these responsibilities, it took a little longer (by my clock) to get done than I would have liked, but they got done. Now, he's mastered a lot of them and completed them before I realize he even started. He takes pride in being a "helper". He'll even ask me if he can be my "Good Samaritan".
I don't want my children to be ones that expect to be given to, but freely gives to others.
I realize I was put here to serve the Lord. In serving the Lord, I know I am to serve others before self, but if I do everything for my children, than who am I teaching them to serve? In teaching my children to be self-sufficient, it's teaching them to serve others by not having to be served in ALL they do.
Friday, November 21, 2008
M went to Washington
M called me Wednesday night while he was at work and asked me to book him a flight to Washington leaving Friday (today) and returning on Sunday.
After getting home at 6 am this morning, he woke up at 8:30 am, got ready and left for the airport. His flight left around 11 am. He should be getting into Washington by now, but I was reading K a bedtime story when he called so I didn't get to talk to him and am not sure where he is.
He went to Washington to "inspect" a car he just bought online. Normally, he would have just had it shipped, but he had a few concerns about this transaction and wanted to give the guy the money in person. He'd rather be out the cost of a plane trip than the cost of a car. If things go right, M will be shipping the car to LA and we should have it in about 2 weeks.
I'm excited about seeing the car in person. It's not a practical family car as it only has 2 seats (we're a family of 4) and is a mid-engine. There will not be room for any kids or a stroller for that matter.
God really worked on me to be the ever supportive wife and just smile and say OK.
Merry Christmas, M!!!!
Who wants to go shopping with me when M gets back??? :-)
Creative Website
I found this website and wanted to share it. It has a lot of great pictures of fun crafty ideas for the kids. I know I'm planning on doing some.
Check it out!
http://belladia.typepad.com/crafty_crow/
Check it out!
http://belladia.typepad.com/crafty_crow/
Proverbs 21
As I read my daily Proverbs, I found a new favorite verse. I don't know how many times I have read this verse, but today it stands out and is speaking to me more than ever.
"The horse is made ready for the day of battle, but victory rests with the Lord." (Proverbs 21:31)
There is so much meaning to this verse that I don't even know where to start. It's comforting to know that no matter how much someone prepares for something (good or bad), the victory rests with the LORD and it's not determined in the immediate time frame we see. It is up to us to prepare for the battles, daily or long-term, but rest knowing that the ultimate victory is in the Lord's hands.
I can go over to a non-believers house with my Bible in tow and verses in mind and prepare to minister to them, but it's not up to me to save them. That responsibility is God's. I can only prepare for the battle of leading others to Christ. I can't decide their fate for them. How refreshing to know I play such an important role, yet am being led by the Lord.
Economical, political, personal, spiritual, relational. Am I properly preparing for the battles, yet allowing the victory to rest in the Lord's hands?
Who is leading your army?
"The horse is made ready for the day of battle, but victory rests with the Lord." (Proverbs 21:31)
There is so much meaning to this verse that I don't even know where to start. It's comforting to know that no matter how much someone prepares for something (good or bad), the victory rests with the LORD and it's not determined in the immediate time frame we see. It is up to us to prepare for the battles, daily or long-term, but rest knowing that the ultimate victory is in the Lord's hands.
I can go over to a non-believers house with my Bible in tow and verses in mind and prepare to minister to them, but it's not up to me to save them. That responsibility is God's. I can only prepare for the battle of leading others to Christ. I can't decide their fate for them. How refreshing to know I play such an important role, yet am being led by the Lord.
Economical, political, personal, spiritual, relational. Am I properly preparing for the battles, yet allowing the victory to rest in the Lord's hands?
Who is leading your army?
Thursday, November 20, 2008
No need to worry
M works shift work, so when he is off during the day we don't get much "school work" done. I honor and cherish the time we get as a family and don't want to lose the little time we have together indoors doing "school work". I didn't realize how little we had actually been doing until I thought about how long it had been since we'd been to the library.
Often times when I wonder if I'm doing enough, I'm reminded that I'm a "Deuteronomy mom".
"Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up." (Deuteronomy 6:5-7)
My husband and I use every possible moment as a learning and/or teaching moment. We know, understand, and respect that children are smarter than most people give them credit for.
I was talking to a homeschool mentor the other day when I mentioned that we haven't done much "school" lately. Sure, we have been reading books, almost every day, at least every night at bedtime, but not 3-4 books a day like we had been. I was beginning to wonder if I would be able to teach him the things he needs and wants to know.
I'm blessed to have a son that has a true love and curiosity for learning. The boy walks around the house sounding words out. I hear him say, "uuuuuumbrella, hhhhhouse, ttttractor, bbbball." You name it, he probably knows what it starts with. I got caught the other day when he asked what our lawn guy, Jorge, starts with. Jorge doesn't sound like it should start with a J, so when he asked me how to spell it, he got a little confused. Luckily, he wasn't very interested in the rules of the language and he went on to something else.
So, as I began to ponder about our past weeks and the things we had (or hadn't) done, I quickly realized he's only 3.5 and he needs to be a kid. He doesn't have to know everything, but will learn the things he needs to because I have completely surrendered homeschooling to God. God will provide when it's time.
This evening, about 8:30, K asked to do some school work from one of the books I bought last summer at the local bookstore. As we sat down together, he began to trace some different letters. He then tried to write them on his own. He doesn't do too bad. He'll eventually get it between the upper and lower lines. As of now, he just writes wherever he wants and that's OK. Well, for some reason, I decided to write h-a-t out. For the next 30 minutes he read over 20 different 3 letter words to me, my mom (on the phone), and his dad (on the phone). As he read each word, he got increasingly quicker. He started by sounding out each letter. Then, he would sound out two of them together. As soon as he realized what he was saying, it was like a light bulb went off and he just spouted out the word. It was one of the cutest expressions I have ever seen. It was such a mommy moment. I wish I could have captured the look on his face when he realized he was actually reading.
I guess us not doing school work for the past few weeks didn't hurt his love for learning too much.
Often times when I wonder if I'm doing enough, I'm reminded that I'm a "Deuteronomy mom".
"Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up." (Deuteronomy 6:5-7)
My husband and I use every possible moment as a learning and/or teaching moment. We know, understand, and respect that children are smarter than most people give them credit for.
I was talking to a homeschool mentor the other day when I mentioned that we haven't done much "school" lately. Sure, we have been reading books, almost every day, at least every night at bedtime, but not 3-4 books a day like we had been. I was beginning to wonder if I would be able to teach him the things he needs and wants to know.
I'm blessed to have a son that has a true love and curiosity for learning. The boy walks around the house sounding words out. I hear him say, "uuuuuumbrella, hhhhhouse, ttttractor, bbbball." You name it, he probably knows what it starts with. I got caught the other day when he asked what our lawn guy, Jorge, starts with. Jorge doesn't sound like it should start with a J, so when he asked me how to spell it, he got a little confused. Luckily, he wasn't very interested in the rules of the language and he went on to something else.
So, as I began to ponder about our past weeks and the things we had (or hadn't) done, I quickly realized he's only 3.5 and he needs to be a kid. He doesn't have to know everything, but will learn the things he needs to because I have completely surrendered homeschooling to God. God will provide when it's time.
This evening, about 8:30, K asked to do some school work from one of the books I bought last summer at the local bookstore. As we sat down together, he began to trace some different letters. He then tried to write them on his own. He doesn't do too bad. He'll eventually get it between the upper and lower lines. As of now, he just writes wherever he wants and that's OK. Well, for some reason, I decided to write h-a-t out. For the next 30 minutes he read over 20 different 3 letter words to me, my mom (on the phone), and his dad (on the phone). As he read each word, he got increasingly quicker. He started by sounding out each letter. Then, he would sound out two of them together. As soon as he realized what he was saying, it was like a light bulb went off and he just spouted out the word. It was one of the cutest expressions I have ever seen. It was such a mommy moment. I wish I could have captured the look on his face when he realized he was actually reading.
I guess us not doing school work for the past few weeks didn't hurt his love for learning too much.
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Mommmmaaaaa
After I finished reading K's choice read, Katy No-Pocket, by flashlight tonight, I tucked him into bed, he said his prayers, and I turned off the lights. As I anxiously walked the hallway to the desk to sit down and catch up on e-mails and do a little reading, I heard, "Momma,.....Momma.......Mommmmaaaaaa." I couldn't help but smile. I didn't even get to sit down. I figured he would ask me to turn on a night light, since he had just asked me to close the door (completely). I was wrong. Just when I thought I had him figured out. No, he didn't want any lights on, he wanted to know if I "locked all the doors?" To which I replied, "yes" "OK. goodnight." and off he went to sweet slumber.
As soon as he KNEW he was safe and secure, he rolled over and went to sleep. Is that what is meant by childlike faith? How much easier would life be if I would just say OK, roll over, and let God take care of it.
Why is it so hard to just say OK when I know I am being called or pulled away from something?
"Many are the plans in a man's heart, but it is the LORD's purpose that prevails." (Proverbs 19:21)
Just as I do my best to protect my (HIS) children, I KNOW God is protecting me in all that I do.
As soon as he KNEW he was safe and secure, he rolled over and went to sleep. Is that what is meant by childlike faith? How much easier would life be if I would just say OK, roll over, and let God take care of it.
Why is it so hard to just say OK when I know I am being called or pulled away from something?
"Many are the plans in a man's heart, but it is the LORD's purpose that prevails." (Proverbs 19:21)
Just as I do my best to protect my (HIS) children, I KNOW God is protecting me in all that I do.
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Cabinet doors
I can't help but laugh at how things happen.
Last night I had some Moms over for a Mom's Night Out. We Watched Anita Renfroe, ate desserts, and got a chance to fellowship. It was a good time.
Now that everyone has left and all the visitors are gone, my husband and I are putting the cabinet doors up in the kitchen. How nice it would have been to have all my mismatched dishes and tupperware hidden and out of sight. In honesty, I really didn't mind that they were not hidden, but it's funny how just hours later, it looks like such a different kitchen.
Just as I invited the ladies over for fellowship, not to "check" out my house, I know they felt the same. They were coming over for a little time away. A little adult conversation and a chance to watch a Christian comedian in the solitude of other moms.
I have been blessed with friends that truly don't care about the condition of my house, but of my heart. Friends like that are hard to find. I think it's easier to find them if you first become the kind of friend you are looking for. How could I ever expect someone to come to my house and not judge me if I am judging them?
Last night I had some Moms over for a Mom's Night Out. We Watched Anita Renfroe, ate desserts, and got a chance to fellowship. It was a good time.
Now that everyone has left and all the visitors are gone, my husband and I are putting the cabinet doors up in the kitchen. How nice it would have been to have all my mismatched dishes and tupperware hidden and out of sight. In honesty, I really didn't mind that they were not hidden, but it's funny how just hours later, it looks like such a different kitchen.
Just as I invited the ladies over for fellowship, not to "check" out my house, I know they felt the same. They were coming over for a little time away. A little adult conversation and a chance to watch a Christian comedian in the solitude of other moms.
I have been blessed with friends that truly don't care about the condition of my house, but of my heart. Friends like that are hard to find. I think it's easier to find them if you first become the kind of friend you are looking for. How could I ever expect someone to come to my house and not judge me if I am judging them?
Our Zoo
I finally surrendered my control over the pipe cleaners and allowed K to use his imagination to create something. I guess I finally realized that's what I bought them for.
The first thing we made was a butterfly. M didn't like it too
much since K went around the house pretending to be a butterfly saying "swoodle" everywhere he went.
much since K went around the house pretending to be a butterfly saying "swoodle" everywhere he went.
The next thing we made was a turtle. It's a blue, green, and black turtle, but... it's a turtle. That's what I love about a child's imagination, it has no boundaries.
Then we made a monkey. I actually made 2 different versions of a monkey. K picked out the colors. M was a lot happier with the "results" of K being a monkey versus a butterfly.
Then we made a monkey. I actually made 2 different versions of a monkey. K picked out the colors. M was a lot happier with the "results" of K being a monkey versus a butterfly.Then, we made a horse and added a chicken that one of K's friend had given him.
Of course, all the animals have to have a place to live, so I found a perfect shoebox that already had "bars" on them. I just had to cut them out. As I was cutting the bars, K gently reminded me to make sure I made a door so the animals could get in and out. :-)
Of course, all the animals have to have a place to live, so I found a perfect shoebox that already had "bars" on them. I just had to cut them out. As I was cutting the bars, K gently reminded me to make sure I made a door so the animals could get in and out. :-)
This morning, we made a silver elephant with red legs. I just finished making a baby green elephant. So, I guess when our zoo is completely finished, if that ever happens, I will post more pics.
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